Day 23. Do you have a song? Which one is it? (if not what song reminds you of him/her?)

 ”Then” - by Brad Paisley 

This was our very first song. “Honey Bee” by Blake Shelton is also one of our songs but that came later on.

Day 22. Share something cute (a story, something either of you have done, a song, a memory, a dream, a wish).

  Well we always love just having fun and being silly together. When I came to visit him this Christmas, for our one year anniversary we went to spend the day in Little Rock, Arkansas. We walked around a for awhile and we came upon a really cool playground. It had a big slide, lots of things to climb on, and these really cool tunnels! We ran around like crazy, acting like little kids and we had such a blast, it was one of the funnest things I’ve done with him. We had so much fun, it was the best Anniversary! I love how we can just be ourselves around each other, I love him so much.. 

Day 21. Give us a little insight (as much as you’re comfortable) of your sex life. (either with this person physically, or your general history, or over the phone, what ever you want).

 Well it’s pretty awesome! that is when we’re not so far away from each other.. But there is always Skype ;)

 The first time we did have sex was about a month after we had been together. For me I have to be emotionally attached and really comfortable with my lover, so over time after we got to know each other more the sex just became more and more better. 

Day 20. Is there something you regret? (either about the relationship or something you’ve done)

 Yes I do regret something I have done, and feel absolutely horrible about it. However, from the mistakes we have both made in our relationship, we’ve managed to come out stronger then ever before as a couple and we have also become closer as well. Everyone will make mistakes, but its up to you to learn from it so the same thing won’t happen again, cause most likely, people don’t forgive the second time around.

Day 19. I know there isn’t one thing, but choose one of your favorite things to hear him/her say:

 I love hearing him say the word beautiful when talking to me, like when he says “you’re beautiful”, “good night beautiful”, “I love you beautiful”, or “you look so beautiful today”, it always puts a smile on my face and warms my heart. 



LDR Challenge Day 18
Day 18. Post a picture of the two of you. (If you don’t have one post one you could relate to):

Our first picture together. Way back in January 2011, we had been together for about a week.

Day 17. Favorite Love (LDR or not) quote.

 ”For it was not my ear you whispered, But into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, But my soul.”

All time favorite love quote, reminds me so much of Alex.

Day 16. Favorite love (LDR or not) movie.

 mmm.. there’s so many!

- “The Notebook” is an all time favorite, but “Can’t Buy Me Love” is right up there too

Day 15. Favorite love (LDR or not) song.

 My favorite love song has to be.. Love Don’t Run - Steve Holly.

My second favorite is Honey Bee - Blake Shelton cause thats me and Alex’s song, at least one of them (:

Day 14. Describe a moment you had with him/her and how perfect it would be (if you haven’t met describe how it would be).

Oh we’ve had so many perfect moments together, and the best ones are the ones where neither of us spoke a word.

One of my top favorites is when we were driving home in his ’91 mustang. I can’t remember exactly where we were coming from but It was a warm spring day, the temperature was just right so we had the windows rolled down, ah it was just a perfect day all around. We were driving down the back road to his house, country music was blaring from the speakers, we were holding each others hands like always, and even though he has stick shift he still makes it a priority to hold my hand. I was looking out the window and letting my hair blow in the wind, and when I go to turn around to look at him, he is already facing me. His smile lit up his face, I swear he looked like the most sexiest man on earth, (and he still is to this day). Our eyes connected and I never felt so in love before. I could just tell by the way he was looking back at me, he felt the same way. We have shared several moments like this together, but on days like those it just makes things so perfect. Im looking forward to having many more!

Day 13. What do you think is the hardest thing about distance?

 Well thats easy. My answer is having no physical contact! Of course a long distance relationship will help build your relationship more because there is no physical contact and youre forced to love that person for whom she or he is, not just for the sex, but when the months go by and you guys are truly in love with each other, not having that person there next to you becomes really hard to deal with. And it’s not just sex, yes sex is awesome but I really miss the small things that I took for granted before.. Like holding his hand, cuddling, sitting on his lap.. oh and especially during a argument, I never noticed till we were in this LDR but it makes a big difference to have that person there with you when youre upset. Like times when me and Alex start having at each other, all I really want is to drop the silly problem and I just give him a hug.

 But even tho it gets hard at times, I would never give up because I know this is only for a short period of time compared a lifetime I’ll be spending with him.

Day 12. How would you define love?

 Love is a strong passion that one has for someone or something. There are all different type of love and different ways of showing it. When loving someone in a romantic way, to me that means giving them your complete trust, being incredibly attracted to them, not wanting to change that person cause they are perfect the way they are, doing just about anything for them and knowing they would do the same for you. Love should bring you loads of happiness and joy. But love isn’t always easy.

Day 11. Pick one thing you miss and describe it.

 I miss his touch in every single way, just knowing that he is right there next to me is something I miss so so much and will never get tired of it.. Like his arms wrapped around me when we sleep at night and waking up with his arms still tight around me. Or holding his hand in the car while he drives, or holding his hand where ever we go. Ugh, I miss his sweet hugs, and his kisses he would give me all over my body. Where ever we are or where ever we go we always made sure that our bodies were touching each others somehow. Now that we are separated by distance a piece of me is missing.. 

Day 10. Favorite thing about him/her?

 It’s so hard to pick just one, but the first thing that I think of first is his smile. I love his smile so much. It is the biggest brightest smile I’ve ever seen, and it’s contagious! I can’t help but smile back, every single time.


Day 9. Favorite thing he/her has given you?

  My favorite thing he had given me is two things actually, a heart neckless and a promise ring. It’s hard to choose which one I like best.

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